David Webber, Columbia MISSOURIAN, November 25, 2018
Winter and the holiday season seem to increase the public’s awareness of the homeless among us. While homeless in the summer is no picnic, the thought of our fellow citizens “being out there in the cold” is disturbing.
For Christians, Christmas with its story of two homeless travelers ultimately finding shelter in a manager can be attention getting. And then there is that quote “whatever ye have done unto the least of these my brethren, ye have done unto me.”
A year ago, about this time, I met a young man from outside Jefferson City whose marriage was falling apart. He and his wife had two school-aged daughters, and they agreed it was easier for him to find somewhere else to live. He came to Columbia because it was larger, but he didn’t know anyone.
A few years earlier, I’d met a guy who had been extradited from California, was awaiting trial and had been released on his own recognizance. He had no money, no identification, not even his eye glasses and knew no one in Missouri.
Last summer, a man nearing retirement age lost his apartment because he owed too much back rent. Homelessness had never occurred to him before. This summer I met a young woman working several low-paying personal attendant jobs saving for a car because “it will be her life insurance, someplace to go to be independent and safe.”
There are many routes leading normal, average people to homelessness. Increasingly drug and alcohol addictions will be a serious problem for many families. Few families have the resources or knowledge to know what to do. Often addicts end up in our emergency rooms and on our streets. I met a mother volunteering at a shelter so she could stay in touch with her son whose drug addiction destroyed their family.
Without a stable home, those who don’t want to be totally self-reliant and isolated often choose between a shelter or a camp. They may look the same to us, but they differ in resources, authority, eligibility, governance — and personal freedom.
I have written a play about each of these shelter alternatives. “The Night at the Shelter” was performed in late 2015, and “Chuck’s Jungle: A Night at the Campsite” was performed last week. The plays are inspired by and based on listening to several hundred homeless men and women in Columbia.
Homeless men and women seek a sense of community while struggling for their own survival. Yes, bikes and phones often disappear if left unattended, but homeless guys often give up the last cot at a shelter for someone they thought needed it more. Homeless guys sometimes bicker and fight, yet they protect the more vulnerable among them.
Shelters are organizations with rules. They are usually predictable, clean and stable, but they usually offer little privacy and personal control. They can be bureaucracy with time checks and procedures that a newcomer may not understand and repeat users tolerate. Shelters are often staffed by well-meaning, middle-class volunteers who can be a little too eager and too bossy for guys who have been out in the weather all day. Surprisingly, you’ll sometimes hear a volunteer declare a variation of this: “They should just be glad they have someplace to go.”
Homeless camps are self-governed but unpredictable, usually with hygiene and safety challenges. Often, they are on private property with the tacit knowledge of the owners. These camps need to stay out of sight. If they are noticed, they will get a notice — and, if noticed too often, they may be scattered by the police.
Seniority often matters in camp governance, so a new person must fit in. Prison experience seems to be the bond that ties guys together.
Across the U.S., municipalities have reportedly cracked down on camps, just as they have removed benches in downtown areas. Compared to the romantic idea of hobos jumping trains in the 1930s, there really are fewer places where the homeless can find personal space.
Car camping may be the boxcar for today’s travelers. Several cities are experimenting with dedicated parking lots for car campers.
Certainly, helping the homeless into more permanent housing is valuable because it gets them into a more stable environment, but it is not enough. The causes of homelessness are many, and they often accumulate to make them a difficult population to help.
When previously homeless men and women are assisted into housing, they often find themselves isolated and torn between their old routines and a new start. They can be geographically isolated without adequate transportation. A soup kitchen is not only about the food, it is about social engagement.
Most of us cannot do much individually to help the homeless. But a city, state and nation can do a great deal more to enact public policies to reduce the probability of leading causes of homelessness such as drug addictions, joblessness and mental illness.
This winter, however, we can treat them with dignity and respect. We can learn to share food with them in safe venues, not just behind serving lines. We can talk with them. We can treat them as brothers and sisters and sons and daughters because they probably are.